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2023 was most a really nice year, personally. Obviously being extremely privileged, living in a country which isn't at war, isn't really suffering from #climatechange (yet) and isn't a total police state (yet, we're going that way). I made new social connections, kept old ones alive and dug deeper into the wonderful world of #polyamory (๐'s to my darlings). I had many wonderful moments with my kids, who all stayed healthy and are growing up to be fantastic, if not sometimes annoying, little human beings. I traveled, visiting Brussels for FOSDEM + friends and then Prague, all by train, and then a family trip to the UK by plane. I went to awesome #gigs, the highlights being Jinjer, Gojira (twice!), Trivium, Ignea, Huora, Vimma, Infected Rain, 22-Pistepirkko, Soilwork and many others. I almost broke my leg in a moshpit ๐ค. I went on more dates than I can remember. I attended many marches, against the populist right wing government Finns decided to vote in, but also to demand more climate action. I also attended various XR actions, though not as many as I would have liked. I survived three rounds of layoffs.
But most of all, the year was about #cycling. I managed to log 182 activities into Strava for a total of 3227km, which is more than 2022 and 2021 combined (1503km and 1280km, respectively). I made my first 100km+ day ride by visiting Porvoo and tested out some bikepacking gear during rides in Tallinn and Tampere. I also started planning my first proper multi-week #bikepacking trip in central Europe for May 2024.
Still, seeing the year as positive does require forgetting a lot of things that are not personal. Like the utter failure of #humanity to converge on climate action. Personally, I've already lost hope. We're just going to ride over that cliff. How big the drop is just depends on what we do to mitigate it. Currently we're not doing much, and the direction isn't necessarily going to improve. With right wing governments on the rise, climate action just isn't going to be a priority. And at least in the democratic countries, you can't go blaming "the government for not doing anything" when it's the voters who are gullible fools, voting populist right wing parties for very very selfish reasons. We, the citizens of these countries, are responsible for change not happening. Maybe this crisis is just too big for our species to handle.
2023 was also the most violent year in a long time, with more #conflicts globally than we have had since a long time. While the world should be converging on the big issues, we're doing what humanity knows best - building borders based on imaginary nationalist ideas and smashing each other to pieces.
Can we, as a species, improve in 2024? That remains to be seen.
Hey everyone, Iโm Willy and #newhere. Iโm interested in #dating, #movies, #polyamorie, #polyamory, #social, and #telegram.
I'm trying to escape main stream social media like FB, Insta and WhatsApp.
I believe that in a good couple relationship based on trust the Woman has the right to her space and her freedom, she should not feel forced to do anything in the relationship. So it is right that she is fully free to decide if and when to have relationships and with whom, if she wishes to indulge in an adventure she must be free to do so, it is her decision, if she says it openly I do not consider it betrayal but do something she wants. Likewise, she must have the full freedom to spend periods away from home, stay with someone or travel without a partner with the people she decides to do it with and for as long as she wants, this doesnโt have to be a problem, it doesnโt even have to being forced to call to give news, a message in the evening to say that everything is fine must be enough, even with regard to the day she will return home she should not feel compelled to establish it in advance and should not be pressured for this. The constraints on women must end, I think they have endured too much the oppression of machismo.
#Feminism #Women #Freedom #WomanPower #WomenPower #PolyAmory