Why you can't compare children to each other.

1.Comparisons cause feelings of inferiority. "I am inferior", "My sister/brother is loved more by my parents", "I will never be as successful".

2.Comparisons create jealousy, and jealousy destroys relationships between children.

3.Comparisons create a situation of unhealthy competition. Children should not compete with each other for superiority in the eyes of their parents. On the contrary, children should be "players on the same team", i.e. support each other.

4.Comparisons create resentment and anger towards parents. Thus, parents, without realizing it, destroy their relationship with their children.
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