#empathy

faab64@diasp.org

I just can't imagine the pain she is going through.

It's just not possible.

My. Mother lost 2 children and until the day she died, she had pains of loss deep inside of her.. watching her cary her dead children is making me so sad

Can't understand how people just ignore their pain and suffering. Specially when there are over 14900of them , a number keep increasing daily.

#empathy #NotATarget #Genocide #SaveGaza #StopIsrael #SaveTheChildren
#palestine #Israel #Politics #PeaceNow #StopTheWar #CeasefireNow

aljazeera@squeet.me

Why human compassion decreases the more people are killed? | The Stream

Throughout Israel’s war on Gaza, there have been calls to remember the names of those who lost their lives and to remember that they are not just numbers.How...#AlJazeera #AlJazeeraEnglish #Empathy #Gaza #Israel #Palestine #Psychology #Science #Statistics #War #WaronGaza #alJazeera #aljazeeraEnglish #aljazeeralive #aljazeeravideo #aljazeeraEnglish #aljazeeralatest #aljazeeralive #aljazeeralivenews #latestnews #newsheadlines
Why human compassion decreases the more people are killed? | The Stream

anonymiss@despora.de

Your #Empathy is Killing Us

source: https://medium.com/@mushon/your-empathy-is-killing-us-1a50a4fc0488

To judge by social #media, the world is divided between good and evil. No nuances, no context, no gray areas. Thus, to truly eradicate evil one must make a clear cut and choose a side: you’re either with the victim or you’re with the perpetrator.

Sadly, this blanket refusal to acknowledge complexity is intensified by the algorithmically induced cycles of engagement / enragement. The more extreme your position, the more tweetable or instagramable it becomes, and the more likely it is to be shared and go viral. And conversely, the more nuanced and devoid of catchy slogans your stated position is, the more it gets suppressed by the #algorithm.

#Hamas #Palestine #Israel #war #terror #socialmedia #society #politics #news

tord_dellsen@diasp.eu

In the current sprint i'm working on KindMind, which is a self-empathy app for android: https://codeberg.org/fswb/kindmind/projects/2916

I want to extend the app so that it includes empathy for other people also. And some other changes are planned as well

I'm also considering moving from the android platform that i've been using to instead create a web app (in javascript). I see advantages and disadvantages with this

I've created a chat room here that you can join if you like:
https://matrix.to/#/!HcEkMfBjCHQVKsDnKK:fairydust.space?via=fairydust.space

#kind-mind #KindMind #software #fswb #empathy #self-empathy

digit@iviv.hu
digit@iviv.hu

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKP6DU6Vjt0

#bias #behaviouralscience #psychology #groupthink #interesting #introspectioncueing

#confirmationbias #cognitiveillusions

#insuficientinformation #engagelogicalslowthinking #withholdprematureconclusion #tapthebreaks
#biastoeasyanswers #biastonarratives #narratives #inconsiderate #bullying #usvsthem #redvsblue
#cherrypicking #evidencecherrypicking #cherrypickingevidence
#seeingwhatyouwanttosee #usingreasoningtofitprejudice #illusions

#massformationpsychosis #howithappens
"We make many of our most important decisions based on what can only be called cognitive illusions. This is embarrassing for us to realise, but the evidence for it is undeniable."
so to that, i say:
"there is no shame in the truth." -- Minbari Religious Cast Elder to Student, Babylon5.
"head into the wave." -- me / old saying / unattributed
as in find your way to where you no longer defeat yourself with your subborn clinging to your self image as one who makes no such errors.
embrace the errors.
then you are on the path. then you are learning.
our confirmation bias, our cognitive illusions, are due eternal vigilance, to not succumb to their blinding arogance and mental/investigative/scrutinative sloth.

this is true whether stupid, or oh so much more clever.
especially if you are oh so much more clever.
because if you really are oh so much more clever, you will suffer more fuel on that fire.
and also, thinking you're oh so much more clever, is improbably true. not that i'm saying truth's always derivable, or even aproachable, through simple statistical analysis, but... since we're always going on a little information, and the dangerousness of how little that information is, can be worsened by how much littler we make it by our confirmation-biasing, cognitive illusions, our slothful lazy hastey grasp on shortcuts, we dont even realise, we're doing it, we dont even realise how little we have, and we tell ourselves we have a lot, we tell ourselves as much as we have, is a lot of what there is, even to the extreme, that it's all there is. unwittingly, we become know it alls, with next to nothing. and we think we're the smarty-est.

there's no shame in the truth.

we're not that smart.

we're not as smart as we think we are. no shame in the truth, that we think we're smart, and that we think that's smarter than we are.

knowing this,

helps us get smarter.

wiser.

wise enough to continue learning.

wise enough to catch ourselves from short-handed thinking.

wise enough to see when we have, and wise enough eagerly accept that, and even point it out to others. wise enough to accept we'll likely never absolutely be beyond this, and even more likely are not beyond it right now, and so reapplies the humility introspective vigilance, not to identify as one who has risen above it, but to persist in plucking away and batting away all the times it has happened already, and all the times more oncoming.

"all i know is i know nothing, and sometimes i forget even that much." -- Me, often, but not often enough without vanity, not often enough really heeding what i (and socrates) mean by it.

#alliknowisiknownothing
#alliknowisiknownothingandsometimesiforgeteventhatmuch

still vulnerable to us-vs-them'ing. like you.


(ps, i forget where i got that link from, but thanks again to whoever shared it. ^ all that from merely first 20 minutes. .... lets see where it goes.)


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#arewethebaddies

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#consciousness
#universallove
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#empathy
#consider

yew@diasp.eu

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#BeneBrown #empathy #quote