#manipulator
গত পরশুদিন দিনটা শুরু হল প্রতিবছরের মতোই যথারীতি, শুনতে পেলাম মাইকে হিন্দি দেশাত্মবোধক গান। তাই সই। ওমা, বেলা গড়িয়ে দুপুরের অর্ধেক হতেই দেখি... সাউন্ডবক্সে ঢুডুপ ঢুডুপ, ঢিসচিক ঢিসচিক ক্যাচক্যাচে বিটের বিহারি রেন্ডি সং চলতে শুরু করল! বলিহারি তোদের ধৈর্য মাইরি, বছরে একটা দিন পুরো দিনটাও তোরা শুধু বোরিং দেশাত্মবোধক গান শুনে কাটাতে পারিস না! সেই পুরোনো স্বভাবে ফিরতে হয়। তাইলে ভাব বছরের পর বছর স্বাধীনতা সংগ্রামীরা কিভাবে একইভাবে বোরিং লড়াই করে গ্যাছে? তোদের অবস্থাটা, তোদের যদি এখন যুদ্ধের সময় ধরে বেঁধে যুদ্ধক্ষেত্রে পাঠিয়ে বলা হয় দেশের সীমান্ত রক্ষা করতে, তোরা দেড় ঘণ্টা যুদ্ধ করেই বলবি, "এই চাপ আর নিতে পারছিনা, ৫০মিনিট ব্রেক চাই।" আমরা ফিরে আসছি একটি ছোট্ট কমার্শিয়াল ব্রেকের পর... 😆😆😆 #fake #patriot #manipulator #nationalism #religion #liars
An Anatomy of Shock
When a person tries to interact with another, there is usually one or more behaviours involved. This can involve physical and emotional behaviours. In order to apply the interaction one, or both, people (we’re talking about only two people to keep it simple) need to open themselves up and make themselves vulnerable to experience that interaction.
Chapter 1 – What Shock Is
Chapter 2 – How Shock Allows a Manipulator, or Unhealthy Person, to Gain Control and Influence
Chapter 3 – Where Manipulators Come In
Chapter 4 – Removing Shock and Unhealthy Behaviour Patterns
Full Article Here - An Anatomy of Shock
#shock #manipulator #manipulation #abuse #abuser #abused #trauma #healing #heal #emotion #emotions #emotional #emotionally #connection #manipulators #behaviour #behavior #psychology #psychological #anatomy #facade #facades #fear #child #parent
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Celebrities posing #naked while #pregnant began as a fiercely defiant and provocative stunt. #Demi_Moore’s 1991 Vanity Fair cover—an undeniably confident woman fully #nude, cradling her pregnant belly—was #progressive in its mere existence: the overt #sexualization and #celebration of a #bodyImage that the #American public had, generally, been taught not to think of as #sexy.
It was a transgressive moment in its #controversy (in 1991, many more #conservative people were none-too-pleased to see a nude pregnant #woman staring at them from the shelves of the grocery store cashier aisle), but also in how it paved the way for the image to eventually become #uncontroversial almost entirely; to be #normalized.
(Go figure something as #natural as a pregnant woman’s body needs to be normalized. #Humans are awful.)
In the decades since Moore’s cover, the nude pregnant #photo has almost become a rudimentary rite of passage for celebrities, especially those whose careers were built on—and at times #exploited—their sexuality. #Christina_Aguilera, #Jessica_Simpson, #Britney_Spears, #Nia_Long, #Cindy_Crawford, #Claudia_Schiffer, #Mariah_Carey, #Monica_Bellucci: the nude photo shoot evolved from #progressive act of #rebellion to an #essential part of the Pregnant Celebrity Publicity Tour. As essential, even, as the “Check Out My Post-Baby Bod!” photo shoot that would typically follow.
It’s easy—and at this point #lazy and #unoriginal—to #attack any news Kardashian makes as a #shameless ploy for more press. The fact of the matter is that Kardashian has built a #career as an expert #manipulator of a #realityTV genre that’s mandated that #media take its stars #seriously, because the many #fans of these shows already do.
She’s an aficionado of #branding, a polarizing #fashion maven, and, after years in the public eye, a bona fide #cultural #influencer.
As such, Kardashian’s treatment of her #celebrity spotlight has #matured along with our #perception of her #influence. She’s no longer the #girl made famous by the #sexTape, but a #person with a #platform who is given a megaphone to speak about #feminism, #sexism, #sexualizing, and, god help us, real things.
There’s something sort of #admirable about this #evolution.
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Kim Kardashian Posts Bold, Beautiful Naked Pregnant Selfie to Combat Body Shaming
#Kim_Kardashian #socialMedia #bodyShaming #bodyPositivity #iPutTheHeadlineAtTheBottomBecauseRegardlessOfHowEnlightenedWeConsiderOurselvesItGoesWithoutSayingThatIfSomeOfYouSawHerNameAtTheTopYouWouldHaveCompletelyIgnoredThisPost
