#behaviour

tpq1980@iviv.hu

Your #debt is an asset on a bank's balance sheet. By moving your debt from one #bank to another, you are reducing the positive balance on one bank's #balance sheet & increasing it on another. If enough #people do that, a bank's share #price can be changed.

If a bank wants to try to impose a social credit system or a component of one upon you, take the asset of your debt away from them. If enough people do this, they may find a bank will change its unwanted #behaviour.

#socialcreditsystem #carboncredits #carboncreditsystem #banking #usa #debt #assets #socialengineering #banks #economiccoercion #uk #un #banksters #bankingelite #globalism #ccp #communism #technocracy #plutocracy #corporatocracy #wef #socialcredit #photosynthesis #cfr #secretsocieties #socialengineers

ramnath@nerdpol.ch

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#feeeman #freezone #freemanfly
https://freemantv.com/born-in-captivity-dr-madlen-ziege/

Could it be that the more accommodating our #environment is, the more we lose the ability to take care of ourselves? Could there be importance in the latrine communication of European rabbits that shifts along a rural-to-urban gradient? Can that express the upcoming shift of humanity into The Great Reset?

"The unbelievable power of nature; how stress guides animals and plants", puts forward the notion that the concept that we call "Stress" is not the evil villain we have been made to believe, instead is an integral part of life, often poorly represented and misunderstood.

Madlen Ziege is an active Biologist since 2009. Her last name "Ziege" in German translates to "Goat" in English; perhaps she was pre-determined to be a Biologist.

She has worked and studied in #Germany, #France, #Mexico, #Canada, #Japan and #Tasmania. Specializing in the #behaviour of #animals and #ecology of #plants, Madlen created the "urban to rural gradient", She has written 2 books and has authored over 30 scientific publications.

The original reason she wanted to become a Biologist was to learn to connect to nature and reality. Madlen now realizes that the scholastic approach to #biology often severs that connection and creates generations of numb scientists disconnected from reality, who are more than glad to work for big pharma and harm life in the process.

She now even questions while being on the board of directors for an organization that aims to protect wildlife against the ill effects of GMOs and #pollution, if environmentalism is nothing more than an extension of scholastically trained narcissism.

Completing her PhD in 2016, Madlen suffered massive #health issues. She suffered from Hormonal imbalances, hair-loss, anxiety, depression and eating disorders. The unfortunate reality is how common these health symptoms are amongst post-Docs!

Born In Captivity – Dr. Madlen Ziege

icu_security@iviv.hu

An Anatomy of Shock

When a person tries to interact with another, there is usually one or more behaviours involved. This can involve physical and emotional behaviours. In order to apply the interaction one, or both, people (we’re talking about only two people to keep it simple) need to open themselves up and make themselves vulnerable to experience that interaction.

Chapter 1 – What Shock Is
Chapter 2 – How Shock Allows a Manipulator, or Unhealthy Person, to Gain Control and Influence
Chapter 3 – Where Manipulators Come In
Chapter 4 – Removing Shock and Unhealthy Behaviour Patterns

Full Article Here - An Anatomy of Shock

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#shock #manipulator #manipulation #abuse #abuser #abused #trauma #healing #heal #emotion #emotions #emotional #emotionally #connection #manipulators #behaviour #behavior #psychology #psychological #anatomy #facade #facades #fear #child #parent

phoebe@pod.dapor.net

Have to think of new possibilities no one ever imagined
(I start harmless, and I dont care about if I just copied it from somewhere else,
because #humanity break #rules #laws anyway and go unpunished
(maybe it can be all pushed of the limit or even break the #system or #reality itself
... and I just LOOOOOOVE to exaggerate, its one of my specialties
(what you did to me I will do to you in a legal way)
some hyper-sensitive #humans made this #toxic behavior clear to me,
especially with their #hypocrisy
who falsely accuse wrong ones to even hide their #crimes instead
... this #behaviour is maybe also seen #world #wide)

elegance@socialhome.network

Altruism in birds? Magpies have outwitted scientists by helping each other remove tracking devices

"When we attached tiny, backpack-like tracking devices to five Australian magpies for a pilot study, we didn’t expect to discover an entirely new social behaviour rarely seen in birds.

Our goal was to learn more about the movement and social dynamics of these highly intelligent birds, and to test these new, durable and reusable devices. Instead, the birds outsmarted us.

As our new research paper explains, the magpies began showing evidence of cooperative “rescue” behaviour to help each other remove the tracker.

While we’re familiar with magpies being intelligent and social creatures, this was the first instance we knew of that showed this type of seemingly altruistic behaviour: helping another member of the group without getting an immediate, tangible reward...."

#smart-birds #magpies #altruistic #behaviour #tracking-devices

icu_security@iviv.hu

The Cancellation Effect

Possible reasons why certain criminals show little or no emotions. Also why others don’t seem to notice they are going to do something bad.

Not Having Contact With Anyone Similar To Yourself

The mechanics of which appear to be that someone is more likely to open out to someone that is pretty similar to themselves. If you haven’t got that it can feel very alone and isolating with feelings you have no one to open out to. So if an individual is troubled they may stay troubled. If left with those troubles, and no one to truly trust, then those troubles will just get unresolved and may get worse. This is why psychiatry doesn’t always work. If the person doesn’t trust the other person then they’re likely to hold things back. And when things are held back they don’t get dealt with.

From observation not everyone responds the same way to all people. Would anyone seriously open out to someone they didn’t feel comfortable with? Who are you going to trust more; someone that is like you yourself or someone who is completely different? Therefore, if you have no one similar around then you could feel you have no one you can truly trust.

If you have someone closely matching you it can be like having a conversation with yourself; in that you’ll be likely getting helpful responses rather than unhelpful ones. Then why doesn’t everyone just talk to themselves you might ask? Because people enjoy healthy interaction with the company of other people; but it helps more if it’s the right people.

People Going Bad Because They’re Around The Wrong People?

How many times have people felt they could genuinely open up to someone and felt comfortable doing it? If it’s the right person, it should come naturally; there would be no need to force through any emotions simply to get them out. If it’s the wrong person then they could get an unhelpful reaction. For example: they could be laughed at, told it’s nothing to worry about, it’s all in their mind, have no genuine emotion or appreciation shown to them. Nobody wants an emotionless blank stare or the wrong response when you try to explain that something is wrong. Purely for the reason that if something is wrong you require a specific emotional response for it to be made right. If you get the response that doesn’t help you then you may as well be talking to a brick wall.

“Hello brick wall. I’m really feeling depressed. I can’t cope”
Brick wall naturally stays emotionally cold and says nothing. So imagine getting that sort of response from another human being, if say, you really need some sympathy or care. You’re going to think no one cares about you or wants to care about you. You’re going to feel cold and emotionless towards people because there is no emotion to be felt.

Another thing to remember is, just because someone tries to give the right emotional response, doesn’t make it genuine. And many people in a depressed state will know if someone isn’t being genuine. The response will feel forced as if too much emphasis is being put into the tone of the response. When someone gives a genuine response there is no emphasis – they would naturally feel for that person without the need to push it. No one is going to respond positively if the response isn’t genuine. There’s a difference in being paid to trying to help someone and genuinely wanting to do it.

Result – those feelings get hidden away until they build up and erupt in negative ways. Unless of course you happen upon someone you feel you can actually talk to without feeling embarrassed or bad about doing it. The other result is you can end up linking together with the wrong people that will actually make the problem worse; as in the case of those who go out to commit murder or other serious crimes.

The Mirror Effect

Ever been round or near someone and they instantly perk you up? And they don’t actually have to do much and you don’t need to explain anything. They don’t need to over-emphasis understanding. Ever been with someone whom you have no trouble expressing your emotions to? Now imagine being deprived of that. Imagine having to go through life where being around people is a struggle. You have to explain things in detail to people and they still come up with the wrong responses. You might come to believe that not only does no one understand you but no one wants to even try understanding you. If someone needs to ask what is wrong and is seriously struggling understanding how they can help then it’s unlikely they really understand what you need.

If there’s someone similar to you, they’re more likely to want to help, because it’s like looking in the mirror at yourself. However, some people can find this fearful seeing someone just like you and can bring forth emotions they might be scared to experience. Some people are comfortable with it. But others can be scared to come face to face with someone who can effectively see right into you. They might be scared they’ll know all your darkest deeds or they might be afraid how others will see it.

The Cancellation Effect

If you get two troubled people who are the same they can seemingly cancel each other out. Think of Rock – Paper – Scissors. When the opposite of the same meet nobody wins, but then nobody loses either. Stalemate.

It can be a good thing as they won’t be violent to each other and be great for working on a project. Who better to work with than someone similar or the same? They’re certainly not going to argue or be objectionable to the way you work. They’re more likely to work with you in harmony. Just being around them is going to make you feel good. So no falling out if something goes wrong or one does something different.

They may more likely try to understand what you’re doing and the other will be open to new suggestions of ways to do something.

Blaming The Parents

Is this right? Not all children get along with their parents and if there is no trust they’re unlikely to open up to how they’re really feeling. Society and the media seem to impose a particular view that your family should always be the closest thing in your life and be the ones people should always turn to when things go wrong. And for some people this can be true, but that doesn’t mean it is true for everyone.

A parent can be as loving as they can possibly be, but that doesn’t mean that parent can understand what’s going on. if a parent is not the same as the their child then that child might not feel comfortable opening up to that parent. There would be no trust from the child of the parent. It’s not saying the parent is to blame for this however, it’s just how some things are. Not all people are the same and not all people are the same as other family members.

Therefore, in the case of parents being accused of not knowing their children were going to go off the rails “How could they not know”, it is clear the parent in many cases is not to blame.

How Does This Help With People Turning Bad?

Well, imagine living in a world where no one seems to understand you or you have no natural connection with. Imagine living in a world where you feel there is no one like you and therefore no one to truly understand you and appreciate you for who you are. It’s a very cold and emotionless world. That’s not to say everyone in that state is going to turn bad but it’s still not a healthy state to be in. If left unchecked, it might be understandable why certain individuals might feel no emotional connection to anyone else.

They could have thoughts such as:

“No one cares about me, no one appreciates me. Why should I care or have any emotion to anyone else?”
“I feel bad but there’s no one I can emotionally connect with.”
“There’s no one else like me, I hate myself.”
“They’re not like me. They have no feelings like me. They’re not real human beings”

Image then how such people would feel towards other people? Imagine the potential consequences of someone who’s “gone off the rails” with these sort of blank emotions.

#psychology #behaviour #depression #emotions #feelings #connection #emotionless #cancellation

sylviaj@joindiaspora.com

Lysander Spooner ~ There is No Law Above Natural Law

https://usa.anarchistlibraries.net/library/lysander-spooner-natural-law-or-the-science-of-justice.html

'In #1882, Lysander Spooner wrote #NaturalLaw; or The #Science of Natural #Justice. In it he explained why there is only one #UniversalLaw that governs our #relationships. Natural Law stands above all others.

Natural Law was not created by men and women and it cannot be altered, denied or evaded by any human being, claimed authority or State. It defines the nature of our interactions and even how we judge our own character.

As Natural Law is a phenomena that exists in nature it can be studied like any other. Understanding Natural Law is, as Spooner wrote, the science of natural justice.

How do we live in peace? What rules determine how we maintain peace between each other? It is “self evident” that we can and do live peacefully but do we only do so because some higher “authority” will punish us if we don’t. Or do we all innately understand the unwritten Law that binds us within our corner of #society?

Is there a #common set of #principles which we all understand, regardless of the jurisdiction we live in? Is there a Universal Law which establishes the #boundaries of our #behaviour, enabling us to live in #peace and #harmony?

Of course there is, if there were not #humanity would not have #survived. This is Natural Law and Spooner described it.'

#lysanderspooner #natural #law #universal #truth #knowledge #understanding #rights #morality #ethics

digit@joindiaspora.com

[this piece struck me strong throughout, no guarantees of great revelations for you, maybe you already know]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIGEnKAgRtk

:O

jaw dropping stuff, long before any mention of the topic in the title.

the spine stuff :O

the anxiety stuff :O

startlingly elucidating insights.
perspective shifting stuff. :)

the #autonomicnervoussystem became #disregulated
so it turns out
#anxiety #bipolar #depression #schizophrenia
are all #inflamatoryprocesses.

it's inflamatory.
it is #notpsychelogical.

jaw dropped yet? :)

#fascinating #perspective to entertain.


ther's far more in there than just that. well worth a watch. well worth paying attention to.

e.g.:

20,000,000 information bits in the subconscious, 40 information bits in the conscious.

:O why "mind over matter" and "willpower" struggles.


ps, [i add] the wim hof method, and cannabinoids, and natural sourced vitamins, and joyous laughter and relaxation, seem wise to deploy every day. :)

pps, that was also kinda astonishing (but should be already fully known and aknowledged), how, physicians/doctors/surgeons/etc dont get educated about diet in medical school.
... and we've been flipping out that they dont get educated about the endo-cannabinoid system (the main regulatory system of all the body's regulatory systems, with more receptors than any other system)!? they've far deeper problems yet. corporate capture, inducting "profitable" lies and lies of ommission.




#mercola #drdavidhanscom #spine #inflammation #anxiety #panic #panicattacks #stress #cytokines #susceptability #immunology #polyvagultheory #vagusnerve #cellbiology #pain #biochemsitry #time #chemicalcommunicators #enzymes #sympathetic #parasympathetic #gliolcells #threat #safety #chemical #viruses #bacteria #cancer #bully #difficultboss #thoughts #emotions #physical #neurodegenerative #neurodegenerativedisease #cardiacdisease #adultonsetdiabetes #obesity #parkinsons #altzheimers #inflammatorydissorder #fearless #chronicpain #glucose #carbohydrateexcess #diet #ocytocin #heartrate #restingheartrate #metabolism #humansocialise #coregulation #facialexpression #autonomicnervoussystem #cytokinestorm #stressmanagement #stressmanagementmisnomer #environment #environmentalstimulation #setting #physiological #calmdown #symptoms #remarkablejourney #mindfullness #bodyeffect #goodforyou #relaxation #inflamatorycytokines #responses #importantpieceofthepuzzle #stresschemicals #viralload #accademicperformance #expressivewriting #neuroplasticity #awareness #separation #meditation #sleep #forgiveness #anger #forgiveyourself #intermittantfasting #supplements #inflammatorymarkers #bmi #weight #metabolicflexibility #pinchednerves #humming #directedneuroplasticity #deepbreathing #directstimulationofthevagusnerve #mantras #feedback #psychelogical #slowbreathing #ketones #allcausemortality #vitamind #vitaminddeficiency #magnesium #zinc #disease #illness #wellness #notillness #lifestyle #lifestyles #autoimmunity #thrive #body #survive #train #heartdisease #suicide #pandemic #toxic #technocracy #toxiceconomy #fear #engineeredfear #lockdowns #masquerade #resources #brainwash #motive #worthyvampire #kleptarchy #revolution #wethepeople #play #gimmieback #spiritualjourney #oneconsciousnessexperiencingitselfsubjectively #resiliance #stubmytoe #normalresponse #psychologytoday #anxiety #anothernameforpain #unconsciouspowerfulcircuits #discover #nottrained #nutritionalinformation #outofpain #anxietydropstothefloor #reallythriveatalevelyneverknownexisted #remarkabletransition #healer #knowledgeablehealer #higherlevel #pronoia #deeplyappreciative #welcomechallenge #challenge #profound #profoundlybeneficial #massgrattitude #extremelyhonoured #painfree #wtfaredrsdoingthen #helping #helpingsomanypeople #example #thinkhard #why #conventional #failing #honest #objective #ntt #numbertotreat #preventive #preventative #profilactic #publicengagement #healthforward #technology #data #behaviour #ai #brainwashed #abusedtech #narrative #hypnosis #saturation #grateful #oportunity #issuereporting #welcome #psychology #psychologicalbenefit #directphysiologicalbenefits #positivity #mendwards #optimisinghealth #optimizinghealth #health #somaticwork #veryeffective #keepupthegoodwork #thegoodwork #goodwork #good #work #endeavor #play #playmore #hummore #sorryforsomanyhashtagsijustgottooenthusedbythiscontent #download #beforecensored #lol


backincontrol.com
might be worth a look... idk. make your own mind up. in a sea of misinformation, everybody's a shill.

dredmorbius@joindiaspora.com

Intimacy Does Not Scale

So, on another social network, a familiar pattern emerged earlier today:

  • Person A discussing a matter of personal relevance, with a specific interpretation.
  • Person B, not an immediate party to the conversation, but linked through other participant C, voices an apparently reasonable alternate viewpoint.
  • Person A attacks B, largely for challenging A's narrative.
  • Person B counterattacks A, calling out the hostility.
  • Several others join.

(Please trust me that the details and specific conversation do not matter. The pattern is an archetype.)

In the ensuing conversation, a friend, online discussion facilitator, my own instance's admin, and a long-time friend from Google+ days, suggests a technical solution: context tags, applied by post authors.

TL;DR: I don't think technical fixes will work here.

  • My first inclination on seeing several later posts in the thread was to note that some people operate in "conflict reduction" mode, others in "conflict amplification" mode. And that this might be a case of the latter.
  • Turns out original posster (OP) on thre thread was in fact operating in "conflict amplification" mode: failing to take a charitable interpretation of an interaction.
  • With four decades of online experience ... I've come to the conclusion that explicitly-invoked technological fixes won't do much here. I'd long thought otherwise.

Additionally:

  • There's a technology that's emerged in the past decade supplying many of these capabilities, emojis. Though they have their own limits and pitfals.
  • There are in fact words which can express all of these things.

In intimate conversation ---a case where both or all parties in the same space and time --- there are additional ample side-channels for subtexts to be communicated, including both conflict-diminishing and conflict-escallating ones. And miscommunications and disproportionate responses still occur all the time. Who has never had a fight or misunderstanding with a partner?

It's far harder in mediated discussion. We're operating with much less bandwidth, poorly-developed conventions, and widely divergent expectations and practices. Media is intermediate agency. Media gives scale, but scale gives conflict.

On the Fediverse, any discussion extends beyond the immediate participants. This includes DMs (instance admins can view posts). "Unlisted" toots skip the main timelines, but are accessible to anyone with Web connection, and even "Followers-only" discussions can join across multiple accounts' follower lists (though often in fragemented form). Numerous other social platforms and protocols have symilar dynamics.

We're having a public conversation in a very large room with really strange acoustics. Whispers carry 'round the world (and beyond), and resonate for years. And yes, this means others can listen, and engage. There are many people who seem to believe this is not the case. Unfortunately, that's a belief strongly at odds with reality. Such misalignments often result in disappointment.

(Though yes, if I want to ensure I am only talking with the intended reciipients to the limits of the system, I'll employ DMs. There are of course stronger levels of assurance possible.)

My response to people who respond with hostility is generally to mute or block them. If constructive engagement isn't possible, then don't try to force it ("Block Fuckwits": https://toot.cat/@dredmorbius/104371585950783019)

Which of course means that this theoretically rich social web we have develops some interesting holes and disconnections. (I've been thinking that the emergent structre created by personal and instance-level blocking and muting may be one of the more interesting bits of social networks, creating a resilient structure in an otherwise often structureless space.)

Solution-shaped Objects

I'm not sure what solutions might exist, though some thoughts:

  • Practicing de-escallation smooths over a tremendous amount of frictions.
  • Some people see that itself as perpetuating offence or shifting load (social, emotional), possibly to those least able to address it.
  • B responded in a self-defence mode. Note that this was largely a matching of the empathy level shown and demonstrated. I'm increasingly given to doing this myself, though usually not immediatel in an exchange.
  • A quick "hat check" on a profile in question also frequently answers questions about temperment. For obvious trolls and griefers I'll simply block/ignore immediately. The supply is endless, pick your battles. A subsequent subtoot might be warranted for others, but irrationality by definition cannot be reasoned with.
  • Sometimes encounters born in conflict are fruitful, and I've had a few of those. Less so in recent years, though I'll have to admit.
  • Be mindful of how your own comments might be interpreted or read, in context. If someone expresses tediousness or unwillingness to continue a discussion, take the hint. (A major trigger of my own block is in fact others insisting on continuing a discussion I've no interest in.)
  • If you suspect someone of a tendentious or beligerent viewpoint, rather than attacking on first encounter, requesting clarification may be useful. From me, a "???" indicates "I'm sorry, I don't quite understand, could you please explain in more detail or clarify?" The reasonable will do so. The unreasonable will quite frequently reveal themselves fully at this point.

Socialisation ... may help. That is, training people in the characteristics of the system, public nature of most discussion, and the principles of de-escallation. That only scales so far though. Early Usenet had ~100k active participants and a potential reach of ~1m people (Brian Reed, 1988, via J. Quarterman's The Matrix, 1990). Several subsequent online communities seemed to hit inflection points of increasingly toxic behaviour at ~100k -- 1m users. Arguably a huge function of present 1 billion+ social media networks is hygiene functions.

Instance admins may be able to assist. The instance admin in question here has decades of experience, and far more patience than I, here.

Mostly, though, the message seems to be that Dave Winer was right: conversation doesn't scale very well.

Intimay is Technologically Resistant

I'd used the term "intimate" earlier, and as I consider various forms and modes of media, I'm more strongly convinced that that is the proper contrast with "mediated" interactions.

Intimacy is close, near, full-contact, and small. Intimacy does not scale. Intimacy is the opposite of scale.

All our intermediations put something between individuals: time, space, equipment, records, codes, algorithms, or simply scale itself. One of the longest promises of technology is that it can scale intimacy. I'm inclined to believe that this is a fundamental contradiction, and hence impossible.

#intimacy #scale #media #intermediation #conflict #conflictResolution #Deescallation #publicBehaviour #behaviour #psychology #sociology #SocialMedia #TheFediverse

atari130xe@joindiaspora.com

#sociedad #comportamiento #society #behaviour #lgbt #gay #diversidad #diversity #comingout #salirdelcloset

"Ser gay es cool"

Tobias es gay. Para él eso no es un problema, al contrario se siente orgulloso de serlo pero no siempre fue así porque cuando el salió del Closet se sintió solo y sus padres - en especial su padre-, al comienzo no estaban claros con lo que estaba pasando con la homosexualidad de Tobias. Por esta experiencia, él esta comprometido con otros jóvenes Queer en la asociación Fliederlich en Nürnberg - Alemania.

https://youtu.be/M74MJU0w3cs